You are beautiful....!!!!

Women really were not created to do what a man can do, but to do what a man cannot do. Our generation is so busy proving that women are no lesser than men,and hence we are losing our uniqueness. I read this famous quote by Jenny Laydon, that says, " Being a good woman doesn't have to look a certain way".

We really are wasting time talking about this certain " Feminism", but the point is that...how can two different creations in their own way, compete towards being alike. True that there was a lot of suppression, but cant we just leave all the unpalatable things behind and march for a better tomorrow?

I just thought , I should pen down a few things about " we the women ",

1. To all the working women and mom's , who are working full time , just to provide their family  and kids more than the basic necessities of life, managing house, family, kids, being independent, and never giving a damn about someone who stops by, asking ," Do you have to work???"

2. To all the women who do not work, who chose to stay behind to be with the family , to hold the fort, to be a guiding force ,giving up your ambitions and dreams, running tighter budgets and missing on all the adult interaction and never giving a damn about someone who stops by, asking ." What do you do at home ???"

3. To all those women who have put on weight or have not lost mommy weight, who do not mind being an emotional eater, who love s to binge what she likes and who never gives a damn about someone who stops by to say . " I am surprised you are putting on weight/ not lost mommy weight??"

4. To all those women , who decided to give cooking, cleaning, dirty dishes, errands, a pass , for a day,just to take a break with her friends, and never gives a damn when someone stops by to ask " Why are you gallivanting and not being responsible enough??"

5. To all the women, who are multitasking all through the day , waking up the next day , to do it all over again. Being polite and controlled in spite of all the hormone imbalances and emotional turmoils, and trying to be jovial when someone stops by, asking. " Get a life!!! Do something more, raise the bar !!!"

To all the above..." HATS OFF!!!!"

Being a young woman, you chose to do because of your own reasons. You believe that in the long run, your decisions are in the best interest of your family and friends. You let your wishes vanish for a greater good. You do need someone to tell you that you are doing an amazing job. But chances are bleak that no one might say that soon.The less you respond to negativity , the more happy your life becomes.

Happy womanhood :)